What is Gaslighting?
“You’re crazy – that never happened.” “Are you sure? You tend to have a bad memory.” “It’s all in your head.” Does your partner repeatedly say things like this to you? Do you often start questioning...
View ArticleIs Your Loved One in an Abusive Relationship?
by Monesha, a Hotline advocate “Why don’t they just leave already?” This is a question we hear often from family members and friends of people who are experiencing domestic violence. It can be so...
View Article“Why Do I Love My Abuser?”
We hear from many people who are in abusive relationships, and even those who have left relationships, but say that they love their abusive partner. They wonder, “Why do I love someone who has hurt me...
View ArticlePlaying Their Part: How an Abusive Partner’s “Good” Behavior is Part of the Act
By Bri, a Hotline advocate “He’s really a great guy, though.” “I know this isn’t okay, but she’s made me feel so special, and I just love her so much.” “They were so loving and sweet, and the good...
View ArticleSupporting Someone Who Keeps Returning to an Abusive Relationship
It can be so difficult to watch someone you care about deal with an abusive relationship. Even more difficult is watching that person leave and return to their partner, time and time again. You might...
View ArticleA Deeper Look Into Gaslighting
What is gaslighting? Gaslighting is when your emotions, words, and experiences are twisted and used against you, causing you to question your reality. This can be a very effective form of emotional...
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